“He is Still My Son”: Aging and Living in the Shadow of an Abusive Adult Child with Mental Disorder
Violence and Crime in the Family: Patterns, Causes, and Consequences
ISBN: 978-1-78560-263-4, eISBN: 978-1-78560-262-7
Publication date: 3 September 2015
Abstract
Purpose
In face of global deinstitutionalization policy, some aging parents find themselves confronting violence and crime in the family due to abusive behavior from their adult child with mental disorder. The aim of this paper is to explore and understand the meaning given by aging parents to this deviant behavior and the different ways in which they cope with a lifetime in the shadow of violence.
Design/Methodology/Approach
Data collection was performed through in-depth semi-structured interviews with 16 parents, followed by content analysis.
Findings
Three themes that expressed the meaning attributed to life with ACMD in the shadow of violence: (1) constructing parental identity in a shared reality of violence, (2) social and family networks as a resource in coping with ACMD, and (3) keeping a daily life routine as an anchor in a vulnerable, abusive relationship
Practical Implications
Intervention with such families should focus on the life review process as a therapeutic tool. Interventions should also provide a “safety belt,” including health services, public social networks, and knowledge regarding their right for self-protection.
Originality/Value
Old age becomes an arena for redefined relationships combining increased vulnerability, needs of both sides, and its impact on the well-being of the ageing parents. This calls for better insights and deeper understanding in regard to intervention with such families.
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Citation
Band-Winterstein, T., Avieli, H. and Smeloy, Y. (2015), "“He is Still My Son”: Aging and Living in the Shadow of an Abusive Adult Child with Mental Disorder", Violence and Crime in the Family: Patterns, Causes, and Consequences (Contemporary Perspectives in Family Research, Vol. 9), Emerald Group Publishing Limited, Leeds, pp. 153-176. https://doi.org/10.1108/S1530-353520150000009008
Publisher
:Emerald Group Publishing Limited
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