There Has to Be a Better Way: Kink-ifying Campus Culture to Overcome Communication Challenges

Abstract

As emerging adults on college campuses, undergraduates are at a key stage of developing their identities and deciding the role that intimacy and sexuality will play in relationships for the rest of their lives. Experimentation through casual sex, which modern researchers have dubbed the hookup culture, plays a part in this development. While hooking up has been linked with sexual gratification and value clarification, there are negative aspects of the culture as well, including a lack of communication leading to regret, shame, and sexual assault. This chapter proposes looking to the bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism (BDSM) community as experts in the field of sexual communication and consent, and utilizing skills developed by this community to fill in the gaps where hookup culture has failed emerging adults. Through the use of a novel intervention called the Hookup Card, emerging adults could be empowered to increase their communication skills and see more positive outcomes as they navigate their sexual and identity development.

Citation

Summers, N. (2021), "There Has to Be a Better Way: Kink-ifying Campus Culture to Overcome Communication Challenges", Hart, K.-P.R. and Cutler-Broyles, T. (Ed.) Kink and Everyday Life (Emerald Interdisciplinary Connexions), Emerald Publishing Limited, Leeds, pp. 45-63. https://doi.org/10.1108/978-1-83982-918-520211013